Moving couples and families out of fight and war to peace and fair solutions, from confrontation to cooperation: This is what drives me forward. Since 2011 I am working as a Mediator and Collaborative Lawyer in family law matters. Finding ways out of the external conflict back to inner centring and peace. As this allows us to react with a more differentiated understanding of us and the others. Experiencing and training our behaviour, mindfulness and mindset takes place in my Aikikendo-Workshops with the wooden sword – especially for individuals and couples, as well as professionals.